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Decoding Sexual Fantasies & Attraction
- Jan 5
- 3 min read
What Sexual Attraction and Fantasies Reveal About Your Subconscious Mind
By Sex Priestess Luna Ora
Sexuality is not just about physical intimacy; it is a sacred mirror reflecting the subconscious realms of our psyche. Sexual attractions and fantasies, often dismissed as mere whims or indulgences, carry profound spiritual and energetic insights. When we explore these desires consciously, they can reveal unmet emotional needs, past wounds, and even spiritual lessons. Let us delve into how sexual attraction and fantasies act as portals to the deeper layers of our subconscious mind.
Sexual attraction often serves as a magnetic pull toward qualities we admire, lack, or fear within ourselves. For instance, if you find yourself irresistibly drawn to someone with an aura of confidence and dominance, it might reflect your subconscious yearning to embody those traits or heal wounds related to power and control.
Sexual fantasies are not random; like dreams, they are the mind’s way of processing subconscious themes and emotions. By understanding their symbolism, we can unlock powerful insights. Decoding Sexual Fantasies is to decode The Stories of the Soul.
The Role of Archetypes in Attraction and Fantasy
Sexual attraction and fantasies often align with archetypes that reside in our collective subconscious. These archetypes—such as the Lover, the Warrior, or the Mystic—speak to the parts of ourselves that are longing to be expressed.
Exploring the Energetic Lessons
1. Root Chakra – Fantasies around safety and security may point to unresolved fears or a lack of grounding in your life.
2. Sacral Chakra – Desires tied to creativity, sensuality, and emotions often indicate blocked or suppressed sexual energy.
3. Heart Chakra – Fantasies about deep love or connection reflect a yearning to heal past heartbreaks and open to vulnerability.
Example 1: The Quiet Artist and the Bohemian
Imagine feeling an intense attraction to a free-spirited artist. This could signify your suppressed desire for creative freedom and a more spontaneous life. Energetically, this attraction might be calling you to awaken your sacral chakra, the seat of creativity and emotional flow.
Spiritual Meaning:
The energy behind this attraction invites you to embrace the balance between structure (masculine energy) and flow (feminine energy). It signals an inner longing to reconnect with your creative essence.
Example 2: Power Dynamics in the Bedroom
A common fantasy involves power dynamics, such as being dominated or taking control. These scenarios often reflect deeper issues of trust, surrender, or empowerment. If you fantasize about being dominated, it may stem from a subconscious desire to release control and trust others. Alternatively, fantasies of domination may indicate a need to reclaim personal power.
Energetic Perspective:
Power dynamics correspond to the solar plexus chakra, the center of personal power and confidence. Working with this energy through breathwork, visualization, or guided practices can help balance the dynamic between control and surrender in your life.
Example 3: The Forbidden Lover
If you fantasize about a "forbidden" romance, it may be the Lover archetype yearning to break free from societal constraints. This archetype is about passion, pleasure, and unapologetic self-expression.
Spiritual Meaning:
This fantasy calls you to explore where you have been denying yourself joy or where societal expectations have suppressed your true desires. Embracing this archetype might mean finding ways to incorporate more pleasure and authenticity into your daily life.
Example 4: The Healer Fantasy
A fantasy involving a healer or a nurturing figure could represent a deep soul craving for emotional or spiritual healing. This might stem from childhood wounds or unhealed past relationships.
Energetic Practice:
Work with heart-opening practices, such as chanting the sound "YAM," wearing green gemstones like jade, or journaling about forgiveness and self-love.
Integrating These Insights for Growth
1. Journaling Practice: Reflect on a recent sexual attraction or fantasy. Ask yourself:
What qualities or themes stood out?
How might this reflect something I’m yearning for or avoiding?
2. Ritual Suggestion: Create a sacred space to meditate on your fantasy. Light a candle, sit with your journal, and imagine the scenario unfolding. Ask yourself what emotions arise and how they connect to your life.
3. Energy Healing: Work with a practitioner or use self-guided techniques to align the chakras associated with your attractions and fantasies.
To dive deeper in invite you to schedule an interview and join my sex magic couple's retreat or book a private medicine ceremony. They don't call me a sex witch for nothing... I can guide you, alone or with a partner, to your greatest mystery and purpose.
Sexuality is a sacred teacher, offering profound insights into our subconscious and energetic worlds. By consciously exploring our attractions and fantasies, we can uncover hidden truths, heal old wounds, and connect to the deepest layers of our being. Honor these experiences as a divine gift, for they are the language of your soul seeking to guide you toward wholeness.
Love, Sex Priestess Luna Ora.
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