A blow job is not a JOB.
It is the act of taking in your partner's life force into your second sexual organ- your mouth and throat.
It is the devotional offering to the God in the man. the worshiping of his divine masculine. which is why, sisters- we need to give a lot LESS blowjobs!!
because most men are not in their divine masculine most of the time and so if you offer this gift of devotion to his ego- that is the part in him you will give the offering and empower. and we, goddesses- we want to awaken GODS.
This is a very powerful gift and the allowing for the man's life force to enter your mouth.
We create reality with sex but also with words. With our voice, so this is not just the second sexual organ but also the second portal we manifest with.
Most men and women today have been programmed to think, though porn, that any sexual act starts with a blow job.
This is a very DISTORTED AND destroys the divine sexual flow.
If you have learned even a bit from my youtube channel and my sex magic school, or my books, you know the sacred flow of sex. How the masculine, the man, gives to woman first. she than, is overflown, trans,utes his life force and only then- and can give it back to him. So you can see how giving this gift to the man first goes against the divine flow of the masculine and feminine, which affects a man and a woman in sex and also in their everyday lives.
A conscious woman is going to want her Man to show up and prove himself to be a Giver of Life Force before she empties herself and gives him her energy. She's looking for that divine and she wants someone who can fill her up energetically and also show his Devotion to the divine feminine and honoring the divine feminine through her. She does not want or needs a man who seeks to take and thinks about his own pleasure first. That is ego. that is his inner boy. and a conscious woman- needs a MAN- in his divine masculine. A boy energy in a man is extremely unattractive to a conscious woman.
A feminine partner - a woman, within her girl face, an unconscious woman, will seek to pleasure the men first but not for the sake of pleasuring him. she will do that for the sake of keeping him around and manipulating him to crave her and love her and want her. A conscious man does not want that. Conscious men want a full devotion of the feminine, from a place of actual worshipping of his own inner God. He wants her to SEE and love his inner God.
Throat energy center
A woman can feel an absolute intense pleasure from an oral devotion. It stimulates the vagus nerve and throat chakra and can be highly powerful and beneficial to activate and strengthen our physical and energetic voices. BUT- It can be just as highly destructive.
Offering an oral devotion will affect your voice as a woman. This is connected to the vagus nerve- so go watch that video also to learn about the connection of the vagus nerve, oral devotion and the human voice- especially the woman's voice)
SEX MAGIC TIP:
Singing and humming through during an oral devotion is wonderful to activate and strengthen your voice.
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Oral Devotion – Blow Job for a God
We have been talking a lot about the worshiping of the goddess and her pleasure.
It’s time to worship the GOD.
A blow job can be a sacred act—not the kind we see in porn, but an oral devotion for a true divine masculine. Let’s refer to the blow job as “oral devotion,” shall we? First, because it is not a ‘job’ we must do, and it has nothing to do with ‘blowing’ anything. In fact, we suck when we give head, no? We don’t blow. We suck because it is the natural way to receive and worship the always giving, masculine energy.
A goddess doesn’t just put a penis in her mouth and moves it back and forward with moans and sounds she makes to seem sexier to the man. First of all, a goddess doesn’t just put any penis in her mouth! Just as her sacred portal between her legs demands a real god’s power, so does the portal in her throat. The throat chackra is the one that holds the second pair of lips and the feminine voice is delicate, yet its roar is the most powerful. The female voice has been believed to be dangerous; it seduces men and enchants. That is why in religion (especially Islam and Judaism, the women are forbidden to sing in front of men, or even speak at all at some occasions).
When a goddess takes a penis into her mouth, she takes in the channel that gives life itself. She takes god inside of her to connect and fill her up with his power. She opens her mouth, begging to be ravished and for this god to open and ACTIVATE her throat chackra and to empower her voice even more. She knows that his power will empower hers even more. She knows that this act of worshiping him, this man she chose so carefully, this man she saw the god in, will give her his life force with respect and love. She chooses a man who is a giver, for if she does this act with a man who takes from her or doesn’t respect her, she will feel drained and even emotional or sad at the end.
This act invites a man to feel his own sexual sacredness. His wholeness. And the divine masculine deserves to be celebrated and worshiped. It is an invitation from a goddess to a god to embody his own divinity and be respected for it.
This is an act of pure worship of the god by the feminine.
It is an act of trust. Surrender and devotion.
Do you see why you must re-program all the porn images you have ever seen? Why you must take this initiation time to cleanse yourself body, mind and soul?
When a man reaches with the tip of his penis to the throat chackra. As deep as it feels good to the woman, he in fact, activates her voice and opens up this energy center. Again, this must be done with a man who has the right energy—a man who is connected to his divine masculine. The act can be the same with two different men, but the feeling the woman will remain with is utterly different.
Do not allow just any man to touch your throat chackra with his sexual organ. This is a place that is in fact harder to cleanse energetically. A place that will be affected differently than the womb. The womb can transmute energies, but the throat simply absorbs them. It affects your voice. On all levels. The Mother needs women to have a strong voice now more than ever. A physical voice and a spiritual one. This act of oral devotion can be extremely powerful or destructive. It depends if you are penetrated by a man-boy or a god-man. They will take you to different places.
They will leave you drained and more silent or filled with an endless roar and grounded voice.
When giving an oral devotion to your man, whether you are male or female, prepare a sacred, loving space for him. The way he may like it. You can invite him to lay down or you will be on your knees, as a symbol of your full devotion. Invite him to fill you up with his light vessel as he stands above you. I suggest trying it both ways and see how it makes you feel. Put your own ego and old conceptions aside and do this from the new point of view of a confident, receptive goddess.
You can open your mouth right away to ask for his power to fill you or you can first begin massaging him, if he needs to relax more. It all depends on you, him, and the intention of your oral devotion. If he is laying down and you want to soothe him more, remind him to breathe deep and enjoy this love you are gifting him with. Look at him as if you would look at a god. Talk to him as if you would talk to a god. It is the goddess in you that awakens the god in him.